We're Engaged!

Photography: Misty Winter

Even writing that title is so unbelievable to me! As I am writing this I can't help but stare at my ring and feel so crazy about this past weekend! Our proposal was featured on How He Asked but I couldn't wait to share the story with all of you from my perspective! 

Saturday, June 3rd, started out like any other Saturday morning. We got up, made breakfast and just hung out for a bit watching the news before I was heading out for a massage that Kollin got me for my birthday that was on May 31st. 

Since my birthday was in the middle of the week, Kollin told me that we would be celebrating with my family the following weekend with dinner in the city. I woke up on my birthday and he gave me my certificate for the massage and said I would get the rest of my presents when we celebrated Saturday. 

I go to my massage and start heading back to the apartment (across the street) to eat some lunch and hang out before we had to leave for dinner. I get off the elevator and go to open the door only to see that it is locked. I found this weird because Kollin told me he would see me after. I unlock the door and as soon as I walk in I see rose petals covering the hallway all the way to our bedroom. 

I follow them into our bedroom and find two envelopes on the bed marked #1 and #2. I open the first letter to find a note from Kollin explaining what was going on - I was going on a scavenger hunt. Clue one said I would need to head up North back to where our Chicago journey began, our first apartment.

The rest of the letter said I needed to leave at 2:30 so I would make the dinner reservation by 4. My massage ran late and I only had about 20 minutes to get ready! I had gone shopping the night before for a birthday outfit and thankfully had everything in mind of what I wanted to wear! I scrambled to get ready trying not to cry from the realization of what was happening and ordered an Uber to take me to the first spot. 

I arrived at our first apartment and walked inside to find our favorite doorman standing with my cousin, Kate. We hugged, laughed and reminisced about living in the building and what had changed. Kate handed me clue two and it described a bridge near the zoo with a fantastic view of the city. I immediately knew the place as it was one of the first places we visited on move-in day. We jumped in the car and headed to Lincoln Park. 

We arrived at the bridge and I made my way through the several bridal parties there taking photos (it was perfect weather and so many people were out). At this point, I knew I should be looking for someone, but didn't know who it would be or where on the bridge they'd be standing. As I got closer, I saw my sister, Ashley, standing in the middle of the bridge holding clue three. We hugged and read clue three together after taking some pictures (the view is too good not to!). Clue three described a place not too far from the bridge that was very special to us and contained beautiful flowers. I immediately knew, the Lincoln Park Conservatory.  I was hoping this destination would be on the scavenger hunt, as Kollin and I loved coming here to escape the city and just enjoy some alone time.

Ashley and I walk into the conservatory to go to the orchid room where clue four was tapped to the back of a bench. We get to the room where he said the envelope was and start looking behind benches (there were four!). We found the envelope and inside was a penny taped to the letter. Kollin said to take the penny and make a wish in the pond I was next to and the next surprise would appear (I totally wished to get engaged!). 

I threw the penny into the pond, made a wish and turned around to find Kollin walking through the door. He came over to me, grabbed my hands, said the sweetest words and asked me to marry him and spend our lives together. 

After a few moments I realized there was a photographer standing by the door capturing the entire moment. After the proposal Kollin said we were going on an engagement shoot before heading to dinner. We went back to the bridge I was at earlier and then headed back to the apartment to take some pictures at our new home on the terrace with the skyline. 

We headed up to our apartment to wait for the photographer to arrive and I FaceTimed my best friend, Lindsey. I wanted to call everyone, but my sister said the photographer was here so I'd have to wait since the photographer was on a time crunch. We head downstairs to go to the patio and Kollin says, "I have one more surprise for you!" In my mind, I thought it was that Lindsey was in town and joining us for dinner. We walked across the patio, up the stairs and down a hallway (I had no idea where we were going!). Kollin opened a door and what came next blew my mind!

So many of our closest friends and family were there to celebrate us, several driving up from Kentucky! We spent the rest of the night having dinner, drinking champagne and catching up with everyone. To say the least, it was the best day of my life and we both felt so incredibly loved! 

I later found out that Kollin had been planning all of this for six months! An entire Facebook page, tons of messages and a lot of sneaking around! I had no clue that starting from the night before people were coming into town trying to avoid being seen by me! Kollin had a schedule of where I would be and what would be happening by the hour (I only went off schedule once after work Friday to go shopping so you could say I'm predictable! lol). Everything went off perfectly and we had such a memorable and special weekend with everyone! I cannot wait to marry my soul mate! Thank you so much for reading, I can't wait to share wedding details and planning with y'all!

What I Would Tell My Younger Self

Hey dolls! 

I turned 24 this week and was reflecting back on past birthdays, memories and overall moments of life. It was so funny to see what was happening years ago on my birthday, who was in my life and the choices that I made at the time. 

As we grow and change I think it is important to reflect back and understand how you've grown. Below are some things I wish I could tell my younger self:

Wash your face before bed

How many times do we lay in bed debating whether or not to take our makeup off before going to sleep? For me, this was all too often. I wish I would have stressed more importance on this instead of sleeping in my makeup!

He’ll come back to you

Many of you know that Kollin and I have been dating since middle school, eighth grade to be exact! During high school, we broke up and it was heart-breaking. Looking back, I wish I would have told myself that everything will work out how it is supposed to and he will come back to you (and stay with you through college, move in together in Chicago and be so happy!). Oh, young love!

It’s a bad day, not a bad life

I remember when I was younger and something bad would happen it would feel like the end of the world. But, like everything else in life, time passes and so does the bad day. Understanding it is a choice to be in a bad mood would have been so helpful.

Accept yourself as God made you

Through middle school and high school, the comparison game is hard. We want to look this way, have that girl's life and clothes and grow up quickly. While a lot of these problems can follow us into adulthood, I so appreciate now knowing I'm exactly who I am because God made me that way.

Change doesn’t have to be scary

New experiences, jobs, people and lifestyles can be intimidating, but looking back I would tell myself to reach out of my comfort zone more often. This is often the place where we learn so much about ourselves and create a foundation for who we are.

Your parents are right

Yes, mom, you were right about needing that jacket at the football game even though I didn't want to cover up my cute dress. It was cold and I did need it!

Yes, dad, Panama City Spring Break wouldn't have been a good idea or as fun as I thought. 

Your parents have your best intentions in mind and love you and want the best for you.

Be kind to everyone and don’t judge

In high school, I had friends in many different friend groups and I loved that. I definitely tried to fit into a certain one and wish I would have broken down those expectations. Like I said above, the comparison game is hard at that time and it can be easy to jump on the train of judging others that are different. I guess it comes with maturity and understanding that everyone is deserving of your best and most true self.

Try new foods

I was such a picky eater most of my life! I wish I could tell my younger self to open up and try new foods and dishes that I turned my nose up at. 

Forgive people

So many things end up not mattering and it's funny how big of a deal things seem at that time. Forgive people and ask yourself, "Will this matter in a year?" If not, let it go. If it will, still forgive them, but make a point to positively work forward rather than holding that grudge and bringing negativity into your own life.

Great things take time

I believe the best things in life take time. Some of these things include wine, bourbon, handmade Chanel bags... (jk hehe). But, having the expectation that things will come right when you need them or in a quick fashion is misleading yourself. Take the time needed to make something great, put in the extra effort to make something better than it was before and spend time on the things that matter most.

People will let you down, but that’s ok

As we grow and change, people will leave our lives. This could be for many reasons, but it's normal to lose touch with someone or lose friends all together. We grow and change and so do friendships.

Don’t go to the tanning bed

I remember when being pale was such a big deal lol. I was always so concerned about being tan in the winter and for a long time in college, I would go to the tanning bed to make sure I always had that tan glow. I regret this so much! Tanning is not only horrible for your skin and can cause cancer, but I know my older self would be so much healthier. While being pale isn't the chicest thing in the world I definitely am trying to be smarter about sun exposure! 

This is painful, but you grow from it

As we grow and change, there can be growing pains. Challenges at home, losing friends, high school in general and sometimes heartbreak. While I would never wish hardships on anyone, I do believe that these challenges and darker times shape us into who we are and provide us the opportunity to make decisions about who we want to be. 

Learning from those experiences can be so beneficial, even if it feels painful in the moment.

Your problems are not problems

I always laugh a little about what I used to think was a problem, but that is just part of growing up. A girl having the same prom dress was stressful and trying to balance cheerleading and studying for science class were the most of my problems. But hey, I was 14 and didn't really have problems. So, we grow up and learn about other people's real problems. I look back and feel so blessed to have been in a place where the frivolous and small problems were my problems. I would tell my younger self to gain some perspective and understand what real problems are and push myself to help those who have to deal with them.

 

I am always learning and growing and I hope I always will. 24 definitely feels like an "adult" year and that excites me. I was telling my family that for the past few years I've continuously felt 19 and so young. This year, I think that will change and I'm excited to add more learning experience to this list to tell myself. What would you tell your younger self?

Thanks so much for reading! xx

What to Wear to a Baseball Game

Similar Dress | Jacket | Bag: Michael Kors Large Mercer | Shoes: Tory Burch | Watch: Michael Kors | Nail Bracelet: The Peach Box | Bangle: The Peach Box

Spring in Chicago means two things: 1) it is still chilly and can be 40 degrees in the morning and rise to 75 in the afternoon and 2) baseball begins. If there is anything that the people of Chicago are passionate about it is baseball! Whether you're a Northsider and cheer for the Cubs (Go Cubs!) or support the Southside White Sox, every Chicagoan loves their city!

No matter your team there are so many cute ways to support your city through your outfit! My go-to way to support the Cubs is in the form of a hat. It's such an easy accessory to add to any outfit. I love vintage looking hats and American Needle has some great and unique options! A great way to always know your hat won't clash with your outfit, go neutral! A black or gray hat is an easy solution to supporting your team no matter the outfit! 

Since Chicago can still be chilly up until June, I always like to bring a jacket in case of cooler temps. A jean jacket is a cute and sporty jacket to layer with! 

Comfy shoes are a must as you'll be walking around a lot and standing cheering on your team! These Tory Burch espadrilles are the perfect walking shoe and so comfortable. The color also goes with anything! These are no longer available, but check out some on sale here!

25 Things You Didn't Know About Me
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Porcelain Print Crop Top & Shorts | Shoes: old, similar | Bag: JustFab

Whenever I read a blog, I always find myself wanting to know more about the author and the different ways we relate to each other. As I thought of that a few days ago while reading a post, I said to myself, I should share some things with my readers! 

While I do share some personal things with y'all in terms of dating, relationships and overall opinions on things, the general content of The Creative Brief is fashion or lifestyle focused. I've put together 25 things you may not know about me in the hopes that you can relate to me and find a deeper connection to TCB!

1. I am not a morning person. I am much more productive at night!

2. My favorite dish is mac and cheese. I would eat it for every meal if I could. 

3. If I could invite anyone, dead or alive, to a dinner party I would invite - Audrey Hepburn, Stephen Hawking, Princess Diana, Jesus Christ, Claude Monet, Mother Theresa, Eleanor Roosevelt, Anna Wintour, John F. Kennedy and Jackie Kennedy. 

4. Speaking of JFK, I have a mild obsession with the Kennedy family. Ever since my family took a cross-country road trip and stopped in Dallas at the JFK museum, I have found not only their story but overall history very interesting! Kollin can attest to the numerous JFK documentaries and movies on our Tivo lol

5. My favorite alcoholic drink is Sparking Brut Rose and my favorite non-alcoholic drinks are water and Coke.

6. The movies or shows that are usually on in our apartment: any of the Harry Potter movies or the Captain America movies, Grey's Anatomy, the REELZ channel or a Pixar movie.

7. I was a cheerleader for 7 years but had to quit my freshman year of high school due to several concussions. Cheering in college was always a goal of mine, but opted for student government and art instead.

8. I have a six-year-old brother named Charlie. He is awesome and loves Pokemon, soccer, and karate. I also have an older sister, Ashley. She also lives in Chicago and is a foodie, free spirit.

9. My favorite movie of all time is Breakfast at Tiffany's.

10. I still sleep with stuffed animals and a blanket. FDR (short for yep, President Franklin Delano Roosevelt) is a pink turtle and was given to me by Kollin as a Valentine's Day gift and I've slept with him ever since. 

11. The best advice I've ever received is to treat others as you wish to be treated and do not assume anything about them. You never know anyone's circumstances and what they are dealing with.

12. Peonies are my favorite flower

13. Gigi Hadid is my girl crush

14. Kollin and I have a rule where I have to try a dish at least one time before saying no to it (I used to be a really picky eater) and the only thing that hasn't passed the test is uni. It was traumatizing lol.

15. I'm kinda OCD, not all of the time, but when it hits I have to organize and clean.

16. My ideal day off would be having breakfast in bed with Kollin, going shopping with my best friends and having lunch outside. Then I would walk by the lakefront and maybe go to the beach/pool for some sun, followed by champagne and dinner on a rooftop.

17. Kollin and I wrote handwritten letters all through high school and college. We keep them all in boxes in our closet and pull them out and read them from time to time.

18. I almost went to art school and always think about how different I might be if I had, but had the best time and experiences at the University of Kentucky!

19. I love the smell of coffee, but hate the taste.

20. I don't believe in love at first sight, but do believe in soul mates.

21. I love true crime stories and documentaries. My college roommates and I would watch them everyday after class.

22. I prefer drinks closer to room temperature than ice cold.

23. I am terrified of pigeons

24. The best gift I've ever received is my promise ring from Kollin.

25. I've only been out the country twice (the Bahamas & Egypt), but I'd love to travel to many more places like Greece, France, Italy, Ireland & Morrocco.

I'd love to hear from you if you relate or think I'm totally crazy! Thanks so much for reading! xx

The Chicago Guide, Part One

Happy Spring y'all! It's been over two years now that Kollin and I have called Chicago home and one of my favorite things to do with friends or family visiting is give recommendations based on our favorite things about this amazing city. 

After more and more people began to ask I thought why not put together a post?! This list mainly revolves around food & cocktails, but so does my life so it seemed appropriate! I've broken up the post into categories so it's easier for you to find what you're looking for! Apologies in advance for how long this post is, but there is just too much goodness here!

Our Favorite Spots:

  • The Lincoln Park Conservatory

  • John Hancock 96th Floor Bar

  • Art Institute of Chicago

  • The view from the Planetarium

  • 3 Arts Cafe

Favorite Restaurants (Lunch & Dinner):

Chicago has the most amazing restaurants and experiences! This list consists of only places we've been to, but I'll share our bucket list as well! 

  • Blue Door Kitchen

    • $$-$$$

    • A good friend of ours used to be the pastry chef here and we had the best time! Fixed in the old carriage house of the victorian mansion it sits behind, Blue Door Kitchen is a farm-to-table sanctuary located in the heart of Chicago's Gold Coast neighborhood. With a quaint aesthetic and delicious fried chicken, sea scallops & hummingbird cake for dessert, you cannot go wrong. I've also heard the brunch here is amazing (on our bucket list)!

  • Duck Duck Goat

    • $$-$$$

    • Serial restaurant owner & Top Chef winner, Stephanie Izard, is the chef behind Duck Duck Goat and the well-known Girl in the Goat. Duck Duck Goat's Asian fare is exquisite. It is nestled in what is considered the best restaurant space in the city, The West Loop. I highly recommend the Xiao Long Bao, a shrimp and pork soup dumpling, the beef and short rib bone marrow pot stickers, Dan Dan Noodles, and the Red Braised Pork.

  • Sun Wah BBQ

    • $-$$

    • This little gem is located in our old neighborhood, Uptown, about a 10-15 drive north of the Loop. This restaurant goes through 1,000 ducks per week and they know what they are doing! As someone who generally doesn't like duck, I was pleasantly surprised at how much I loved this place. Our first time there we went with another couple and ordered the whole duck dinner. The dinner comes with, you guessed it, a whole duck, soup, fried rice and all the dressings for the duck (relish, veggies, sauces and bao). So good!

  • RPM Italian

    • $$$-$$$$

    • Kollin makes fun of me for how much I love this place! I'd heard about it before we moved here from my days of watching E News and Giuliana Rancic's TV show. She, her husband and another couple own RPM Italian and RPM Steak in Chicago's River North neighborhood. I have loved everything I've had there, literally everything. But I highly recommend the lobster ravioli, squid ink pasta, prime beef meatballs, lobster caprese, wood roasted octopus, and prosciutto tortelloni. And you have to get the bomboloni (homemade donuts with sugar and nutella)!

  • Velvet Taco

    • $-$$

    • When I asked my boss what his favorite tacos in the city are, he named a few places on the south side, but Velvet Taco was high on the list. This cute little joint is in the heart of Gold Coast and he was right, some of the best tacos I've had in the city! You have to try the Picnic Taco, Rotisserie Chicken Taco, Angus Brisket Taco and a margarita!

  • Ricardo Trattoria

    • $$-$$$

    • I took Kollin here for his birthday and it was one of the best Italian meals I've ever had. Located in the Lincoln Park neighborhood, it is a small, intimate spot perfect for date night! We ordered the prosciutto and mozzarella burrata, gnocchi, and the veal and pork ravioli. With an extensive wine list and endless bread, this spot is everything you could want in an Italian restaurant.

  • XOCO

    • $-$$

    • This one was Kollin's find and we came here for lunch one day. One thing to note - it is popular! Make sure to take into account having to wait because it is always packed! They specialize in sandwiches and soups, but this Mexican style street food restaurant founded by the famous Rick Bayless, is anything but simple. I highly recommend the Choriqueso sandwich torta and the carnitas caldo.

  • Tanta

    • $$-$$$

    • For the past two years, my boss has taken the company here for our holiday party dinner and it never disappoints! The amazing cocktails, ceviches and empanadas are just the start in the extensive menu. You have to check this place out and try the chaufa aeropuerto and adobo nikei.

  • Prime & Provisions

    • $$$$

    • Prime & Provisions was one of our first date night spots here in the city. We went here for our 3rd anniversary, the first one we could celebrate together. Structured as a traditional steakhouse, everything is done so well. I highly recommend the lobster and crab cake, filet mignon, mac and cheese and asparagus! And for you fellas reading, there is a cigar menu that Kollin really enjoys!

  • Au Cheval

    • $$

    • Dubbed as the best burger in Chicago, you do not want to leave town without trying Au Cheval. The burger is just the start at this unique, tiny spot in the West Loop! Make sure you get there early because waiting is apart of the experience here. I've even seen people have to wait 7 hours for a table (yes, you read that right!). They don't take reservations, but go early on a weekday and you'll have a chance to try the bone marrow, burger, and chicken liver with toast (sounds gross, but so good trust me!).

  • Mercadito

    • $$

    • This unique place is a traditional mexican fare with tacos, guac, ceviche & delicious sangria. Most everything is tapas style so it is the perfect place to go with a group! I love the tacos and shrimp ceviche!

  • Eatly

    • $-$$

    • Structured like the perfect Italian grocery store, enjoy shopping for authentic Italian breads, wines, gelato, sandwiches, etc. while also eating at the various restaurants inside. With a number of events and specials happening daily, this is the best break from shopping or walking down Michigan Ave and they also carry great options for souvenirs or gifts!

Favorite Brunch Spots:

  • Kanela

    • $$

    • Our go-to spot when we need a mimosa and don't feel like cooking! Kollin loves the crab cake benedict and I love the monte cristo.

  • Lou Mitchell's

    • $-$$

    • I've not been here, but it is a favorite before school breakfast for Kollin. He loves the made from scratch biscuits and the turkey sausage omelet "hobo style" and a side of coffee cake.

  • Yolk

    • $$

    • When it comes to traditional brunch, this is the spot. With a huge menu and plenty of locations across the city, you'll definitely find something you love here!

  • The Hampton Social

    • $$

    • The breakfast sandwich, crab cake and french toast are some of my favorites at this adorable East Coast vibe restaurant.

  • Cafe Ba-Ba-Reeba

    • $$

    • We've been here for dinner and brunch and both options are delicious! I've only had the pre fixe brunch menu here, but the scrambled eggs, banana bread waffles & mimosas are some of my favs!

  • The Bellwether

    • $$-$$$

    • Located just down the street from us, this place is so good! The crab cake benedict (one of Kollin's favorite meals if you can't tell), the biscuits and gravy and protein omelet are our favorites.

  • The Bristol

    • $$

    • You have to order the cinnamon roll (it's big enough to feed 3 people!) and the Chicken and biscuits.

  • Do Rite Donuts

    • $

    • When I say these are the best donuts I've had in Chicago, I mean it! The Streeterville location also serves chicken sandwiches with the donuts and you have to try them! Our favorites are the blueberry donut, cinnamon raised donut and the CBR chicken sandwich.

  • Vanille

    • $

    • If you know anything about me, you know that I love macarons. While macarons aren't really brunch fare, they are for me and I had to share my favorite macarons with y'all! The blueberry, red velvet, champagne, & raspberry falvors are my favorite.

This is part one of a Chicago series I'll be doing over the next couple of months! The most common questions I get from people visiting pertains to where to eat so I started there. Next up will be rooftop bars, activities and the best unknown spots in the city! Thank you so much for reading and I'd love to hear your favorite Chicago spots!

Amanda NavaLifestyle, travel
Designer or Dupe

 

Gucci Loafers | Loafer Dupes | Gucci Bag | Gucci Bag Dupe | Prada Sunglasses | Prada Sunglasses Dupe | Valentino Sandals | Valentino Sandals Dupe

Hey there Loves! I hope everyone had a great week! I wanted to share some amazing designer dupes I've been seeing online and had to share. When it comes to my personal taste I tend to draw myself toward items that my bank account would shudder at, so a good dupe is always a fun find! 

I recently got these in the mail and was so presently surprised at the quality! Of course, they are not as well made as the Gucci pair, but for being $30 they impressed me! They even offer some fun colors, velvet and patterns if you're into the trendier vibes!

This purse has been on my wishlist since it came out and I knew that it wouldn't be in my closet any time soon so when I found a almost complete dupe I put it on my Christmas list asap! 

One of the best things about Nordstrom is that they know their audience. While the department store carries high end designers, their internal brands do a great job or developing designs that mirror what is happening in the fashion world. One of my favorite things to get from Nordstrom as a dupe are sunglasses. Prada is my favorite sunglass designer and these are such a great dupe for the designer version! 

I hope these dupes brightened up your Friday (it's gloomy and gray here in the city)! March Madness starts tonight for Kentucky so we are headed out on the town to cheer on our boys! I hope you have a wonderful weekend and thank you so much for reading! xx 

Amanda NavaFashion
Spring Sales
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Happy Sunday loves! We've had amazing weather here in Chicago this weekend and it has me so excited for Spring! Between all the NYFW runway shows and sales, I have major shopping fever. There are a bunch of great sales happening right now so I've rounded up the sales and items on my wish list below! xx 

Nordstrom Winter Sale: so many great brands and Spring trends are up to 40% off! This jacket is a staple for me and at a great price point right now!

These Steve Madden wedges are such a great dupe for the Marc Fischer pair that everyone is raving about for Spring. They are pretty much identical, super comfortable and super on sale! Also love these dupes!

 
 

H&M: deals under $30 are happening and some are even below $10! 

 
 

Bauble Bar so many good baubles on sale for up to 50% off! Get my favorite everyday ring for only $14! 

 
 

These are just a few items I've picked out, but be sure to look at the full sale and see the amazing deals happening! I hope everyone has a fantastic week and thanks so much for reading! 

Amanda NavaFashion
Being Positive in Today's Negative World

On Saturday this past weekend, Kollin and I were out running errands and began to notice a group of people walking down Michigan Ave. After a few nights of walking out of work and seeing police lights and massive crowds outside Trump Tower (across the street from my office), I assumed it was another protest following the multiple protests there had been since he won the election. 

While I am not one to share political views online and will continue not to do so, I wanted to share some positivity I've been seeing in what seems to be a very negative time for Americans. As we continued walking and noticing the crowds becoming larger and larger, I noticed something was different about this group - they were a majority of women. I'll admit I did not know that women's march was happening that morning and was in complete awe of the solidarity of the group of women who were participating. 

While you may not agree with their message or what they stand for (everyone's opinion is their own and they are entitled to that) there was something that stuck out to me - most of them were not there to protest the new President, but rather to support one another. At previous marches and protests, there were lewd signs, hateful chants and negative vibes and behaviors, even some violence. On Saturday, most of those women just wanted to be heard and not even just for themselves, but for the women next to them, the women watching it on the news and even the women who wanted no part in participating with them. Many of them stated who they were there for: their mother, sister, grandmother, daughters and friends. It is this mentality that I think a lot of our nation is missing - regardless of your opinions and political views, I hope that we can support each other as humans, friends, and equals. It is healthy to debate, disagree and stand up for what you believe in, but when that message is clouded by hate, you've defeated yourself from the start.

I'm sharing this story to share a positive experience I had in a most negative, tumultuous nation right now. When we log into Facebook and see our friends writing statuses about their opinions and the numerous comments that follow about why they are wrong or how they've offended someone, remember this: 

I think that’s the time to buckle down and really work positively as much as you can. Instead of just saying, ‘This is terrible. He’s terrible.’ Just think, ‘Alright, there’s nothing I can do about that right now but I can do the best in my little circle. So if I do that, maybe you’ll do your best and we’ll get through this.’

You’ve gotta get through it. And you can’t change it, so let’s just one foot in front of another and get through it.
— Betty White

Understandably, there are people in our nation who are angry, upset, scared and unsure about what is to come. No matter how you choose to "get through it" like Betty said,  I hope that this encourages you to do so positively and in support of the women and men around you and in the world. Without that support and encouragement to our fellow Americans, I think it would be hard to get through anything or accomplish anything.

Your outlook on things is completely up to you. Choose to be positive and it will spread in ways you couldn't imagine. Thanks so much for reading! xx

Amanda NavaEditorial